As your friend I support you
but what you are doing is wrong.
I feel this girls pain
the same pain I tell you I feel
when I found out I wasn't the only girl in his life.
I told you how it broke me
but you were
out there breaking her heart.
Sleeping with her man
So how can I come to you
with my pain
when you are causing
someone else
the same grief.
3 comments:
you know as much as I would like to say she’s right to her feelings, in which sometimes can't be controlled, I’d be lying. I too was a victim of the cheating disease, why did I do it? Because I found the comfort and, respect, and appreciation that I couldn’t get at home with him, and with me he found the same. With your situation, you did nothing wrong as far as I’m concerned. Now because I say this doesn't mean that I’m justifying what I did, because that I’m not... I know what I did and I take 100% credit for it, but I don’t regret it. What I am saying is ... when we speak on these situations we fail to look at it in the eyes of the other person... so I tell you, take a look. You won’t find peace, but I pray you find a sense of understanding.
I have been in both places where I have cheated on someone I am with. I will just never cheat with someone who is in a relationship. I know people say if he doesnt care then neither do I, but i would think about the girl and how this could be me. I am more saying this for a girl who is comforting her friend through a situation where her boyfriend is playing her, but then turns around to do it to another girl. So i was posing the question as to arent our situations the same? and if so can she be there for me when she is cheating with someone elses man.
[2 things] I get what your saying, but... in the same sense what about the guy? you said that you have been in a situation where you have cheated on someone you've been with, and that you just wont cheat with someone thats already in a relationship because what about the girl, and how that could be you... you also said that the friend was wrong to want to do that although the guy may not care she should still have some decency to think about the girl. Now I’m not taking a side but what about the guy? you never thought to think about him... and to respond to your question... yes, i think she can be there only because she, just like you has had the pleasure of experiencing both situations whether she was right or wrong in the situation she was there and alot of times the things we say to ourselves just to say might be of some help and inspiration for others. That’s like saying can you be of help to her when you've committed the same crime as she did only difference is your cheater didn't have a partner ... regardless of the situation wrong is wrong and that man you decided to share a piece of your relationship was your friends place and that didn't stop you.
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