Girlfriend Mom

When you try to mode a boy to a man you run the risk of acting like his mother. You are trying so hard to change what he wears and how he acts, so that he is more suitable for you. Along the path of transforming him, you begin to transform yourself because you are stepping into a role that is not suitable for you. Instead of suggesting ideas you demand he acts a particular way, dress a certain way. That doesn't sound like a role of a girlfriend but more of a mother. What ever happen to letting him find his way and just being there to help. When you try to control a person they begin to act out. And they start to fight against you to find their own way and you are stuck in confusion. As the man you "created" becomes the man he was destined to be. You sit there dazed wondering what a girlfriend is suppose to be